Jesus' definition of love = obedience

Okay, so I got a divine idea this afternoon while talking to my roommates. We know that Jesus defined "love" for Him as something more than a sentiment, an emotion, or a feeling - He defined it as one firm, clear word that is frightening to our selfish, prideful, fallen human nature. In John 14:15, John 14:21, and John 14:23, Jesus said:

““If you love Me, keep My commandments. And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever—the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you.I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.
“A little while longer and the world will see Me no more, but you will see Me. Because I live, you will live also.At that day you will know that I am in My Father, and you in Me, and I in you.He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.”
Judas (not Iscariot) said to Him, “Lord, how is it that You will manifest Yourself to us, and not to the world?”
Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him.”
(John 14:15-23 NKJV)

Love is obedience.

So the idea I had was what if I decided to take this next week and every time I heard the word "love" (in context to me giving it to God, not in receiving it from Him, of course), I replaced it in my heart and my mind with the word "obey" or the concept of "obedience"? For example, "Jesus, I will love you with all my heart" becomes "Jesus, I will obey you with all my heart". Or "Joe really loves the Lord" becomes "Joe really obeys the Lord".

How many wrong ideas do I have about the way I am supposed to "love" God, and how would some of the things I think or say about myself or about others change when I adopt His definition of love? How offended would I be by the end of the week, let alone the first day?

"Loving" Him can only be done on His terms, which is only through obedience to His words.

Let the experiment begin... Join me (and leave a comment if you want) if you are up for it!